This is, according to some research, a great time to ask for favours or getting your partner to agree to something. Sometimes this means we lose our heads a little and go too far – now is not the time to propose, for instance – but it’s the perfect arena for blue sky thinking, your hopes and dreams, aspirations. There are no rules, no limits, you can say anything. There’s something about the post-climax lull when, for a few minutes, it feels like anything is possible. Round twoĭo you think you’ve got it in you? Would you like it in you? No pressure, but if you both feel like there’s unfinished business, how about a sequel? 8. Oh, and make sure you give a good scrub to any sex toys you’ve used too – safety first! 7. Plus, giving yourself a bit of a post-coital clean-up can help prevent UTIs. Worst case: you slip back under the sheets as clean as angels only to realise you have to change the bed because it’s now basically your sex sewer. Best case scenario: you end up so excited by the slippery, soapy fondling that you go for round two. Lathering each other up, intense eye contact as you soap between their toes. Or a bath, maybe? Don’t look upon it as sluicing away the passion think of it as a sensual add-on. Might a shower be in order? For both of you, I mean.
So you’re lying there, in the afterglow, scents mingling, hearts and minds connected, and isn’t it tremendous? But also, isn’t it… a bit sticky? A bit funky? In the heat of the moment, you didn't even get time to spritz a bit of eau de parfum down your pants. That said, don’t just grab your lycra and bolt – have a breather and explain, gently, to your partner that, yes, it was fantastic, but you’re off to do some biceps curls and please, please, please be there when you get back. Heading to the gym after sex might seem like a crazy idea – I suppose it depends how long you’ve been at it – but sex releases endorphins, which make you feel like you can take on the world, and a boost of testosterone can help with muscle building. Why should you do this? Well, social media clout can be an aphrodisiac, I guess, and perhaps anyone wanting to see that post-sex face in the flesh might drop you a sneaky DM? Why shouldn’t you do it? Your boss follows you and… isn’t that… their partner right next to you? 5. Just search #aftersex on Instagram (an empty stomach is advised). You think I’m joking? A post-coital selfie? Who would do such a thing? Did you just hop off a spaceship? Everyone does. And… it can help them nod off quicker, which gives you more time to check your Twitter or google “how to get someone the hell off me without waking them” while their hair tickles your nose and you try desperately not to sneeze. Cuddling up forges intimacy and can help you associate positive feelings with a person or a situation. It works in social situations too, helping you feel affection for people you spend time with. Remember oxytocin, which I mentioned mere moments ago? It’s also known as the “love hormone” or the “ cuddle hormone” as it’s released when people snuggle up together and helps you bond. Who are you to resist your body’s natural urges? Well, my advice would be to invest in matchsticks or perhaps a can of Monster by the bed, because the only thing less chivalrous than falling asleep before your partner is coming before they do. According to tireless research by scientists desperate for 40 winks after nutting, it could be down to a release of hormones that make you drowsy – prolactin, which tries to coax you into REM sleep, and oxytocin (more on that one later) are thought to be the main culprits. But you can blame basic biology for this one.
Go to sleepįor some reason, falling asleep right after sex is seen as the height of rudeness, like burping in a restaurant or yawning while someone is telling you their problems. If you don’t trust yourself not to sound like a one-star review on TripAdvisor, keep it to yourself. If you have doubts about how it went, approach them gently and be clear you’re only asking because you want to make sure you’re doing everything you can to give them a good time.
“Did you come? But did you, though? Did you? Are you sure?” is never going to elicit the answer you want. Best not to focus on negatives or badger them for praise. What better time to talk about sex than when you’ve just done it? “How was it for you?” is an underrated question: tell them what you especially liked, what you’re looking forward to trying again next time.
Now the earth has stopped moving and your vision is returning to normal, here’s what to do next.
#Boyfriend told me to fuck someone and record it manuals#
But once you’re done, then what? Very few sex manuals bother to tell you what to do once you’ve done the deed. Or it can be spontaneous, coming out of nowhere – literally, in some cases – and being taken by surprise. Sex is all about the thrill, the anticipation, the buildup and then finally getting down to business.
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